Sometimes it’s the smallest detail in a reading that has the biggest impact, and then ‘boom’ you see your recipients mind opening up - it's like a firework opening as they then get sprinkled with love and light from spirit.
And fireworks featured in a reading I gave recently, a little snippet of very relevant evidence about fireworks celebrating her fathers passing, that proved beyond doubt to my recipient that life goes on for her father in spirit.
When we practice readings in our open circle we call this moment 'the little nugget of evidence', the 'lock & load', typically it's the one tiny piece of evidence that cements in your recipients mind that their message is real!
And from then on the information seems to naturally flow as the connection between spirit, the medium and the recipients deepens.
I can't help it, before every tarot reading I get nervous, I tell myself its spirit getting excited!
I find every reading to be emotional, especially for the recipient, and with that comes a huge personal responsibility to deliver the reading and messages from loved ones to the best of my ability.
There are plenty of times whereby the sitter can't answer yes to everything that arises - they simply may not know enough info about the message, or ofcourse I might not be quite 'interpreting & translating' the evidence in the right/best way.
I've had to learn not to get distracted by a 'no' or 'don't know response', it's a continual journey of learning. However what I do know is that more often than not after a reading the recipient gets back in touch to say that after speaking with family more things from the reading have connected!
It constantly reminds me of how much lays undiscovered around us!