I can't help it, before every tarot reading I get nervous, I tell myself its spirit getting excited!
I find every reading to be emotional, especially for the recipient, and with that comes a huge personal responsibility to deliver the reading and messages from loved ones to the best of my ability.
There are plenty of times whereby the sitter can't answer yes to everything that arises - they simply may not know enough info about the message, or ofcourse I might not be quite 'interpreting & translating' the evidence in the right/best way.
I've had to learn not to get distracted by a 'no' or 'don't know response', it's a continual journey of learning. However what I do know is that more often than not after a reading the recipient gets back in touch to say that after speaking with family more things from the reading have connected!
It constantly reminds me of how much lays undiscovered around us!